You still have not answered me if you use racial slurs or not and why and why not? Don't worry we are using it within the right context here. I haven't seen you write anything about you using the words yourself but are adamant about others being able to use it in context.
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For you to have the audacity to say you know exactly what does and does not offend them since you had the same basic origin is either complete megalomania or delusion.
What is delusional is that you assume that I don't have family still in Vietnam. Australia has a large population of vietnamese and I'm sure not all of Viet families have their complete families in Australia. It is delusional that an Asian does not have Asian friends or perhaps have a in-laws who are from different asian cultures. I live in Houston Texas with a vast population of many other Asian cultures. So for me to be ignorant of the difference of my own race is ignorant in my part and even more for someone not of my race to assume so. Please stop assuming you are an expert in how cultured I am in my own race.
May it be whatever race you are, we as human beings don't like to be lowered by insults via our race. If you are a human being that feels that it's ok for others to racially insult you and you enjoy it. More power to you! You have a much THicker Skin than I do.
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Now following that logic you learned that word is offensive AFTER someone told you.
If I didn't tell you that and you said the word, not even knowing it's meaning at any point then you would be a racist.
See where I am going with this ?
WTF? does this make any sense? If i don't know what the word means and I use it? How the heck would I learn the word in the first place? I'm a two year old trying to speak for the first time and my mom and dad are training me with this word? In what world does that happen? I'm around my friends and they use that word and I have no Idea what it means and I start sprouting it out? WTF? I've been locked up in a cave and they finally found me and the first thing I hear is that word so I start practicing using this word? The most likely scenario is that I learned it at a young age from a racist within my family so I used it freely. Even after I learned it is not an acceptable word to use in society I go into a anonymous internet lobby and I am once again free to use it. OR I find out what the word means and I refused to use it and admit I did not know it was inflammatory out of the respect of others.
You wrote about Kramer:
Now some people will be offended by that
let's get real here. Some people? I think majority of people were offended that's why you haven't seen his face on TV since. Let's just say HE GOT BANNED even after he apologized. Why is that? Is it because we a society said let's give him a free pass? Who is the social jury here? Who decided it was OK or not OK? It wasn't me alone who thought it wasn't OK. Kramer himself apologize and realized his mistake. Do we really know if it was a comedy bit for real or was it his true feelings? Do you know him in person to ask him this? He is ignorant to say that only white people are considered racist. Racism happens across all cultures.
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How about in a political debate then ?
If someone is addressing the "N word" and actually say it (as they should, people should always address correctly what they are debating ) then that can offend someone and being a "racist" word then that person is now deemed a racist for even acknologing the word they are trying to eradicate.
Why don't you try it out here on your next post? This is has become a debate. Are you willing to test it out for the sake of debating the topic? Let's see if it makes it passed the restricted words that will be stared(*) out. Now why has this site deemed it improper? HMM. Perhaps the majority agree that it is.
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Learn to take critique if you wish to post such subjective matter.
I have taken your critiques but do I have to agree with them? The matter like you said "subjective". those are your views and it's not my view. I'm not making you change the way you think I'm giving you my opinion. Take it or not. As I will decide if I will take your critique or not.